Showing up is a conscious choice to be seen, heard and valued

IN an era where first impressions are made in an instant, the way we present ourselves has never been more important. 

Whether you are a celebrity in front of the camera or a conveyancer, it applies to everyone.

TV fashion expert and stylist Natalie Shehata sums it up when she says that “showing up” is more than just putting on an outfit—it’s about confidence, authenticity, and making a statement about ho you are.

Speaking at the second annual Australian Conveyancer International Women’s Day event, she pointed out four key rules for showing up.

Clothes Convey Confidence

As she told the audience, what you wear plays a major role in how you feel and how others perceive you.

“You don’t need to have a lot but the clothes you choose can make a difference,” she said. 

She encourages people to take time and be thoughtful with their wardrobe, selecting pieces that empower them to step into any space with confidence.

Personality Shines Through

Fashion, she says, is more than just fabric—it’s a way of expressing individuality. 

“It shows me clothes help you in terms of what the other person perceives.” She believes that our sartorial choices send signals about who we are and what we stand for.

Versatility is Key

She highlights the practicality of a well-curated wardrobe, recommending pieces that transition seamlessly between different settings.

“Lots of my clients ask, ‘Well, is there a dress that I could go to the office in and then go to a dinner?’ So yes… a jacket can make all the difference.”

Fit Trumps Size

For Shehata, fit matters far more than the number on the label. “I didn’t care about the size, I care about how it fits.

” She advises choosing clothing that flatters and enhances your natural shape, rather than being dictated by standard sizing conventions.

Showing Up Matters

Above all, Nat emphasises that the key is to show up—both physically and mentally. “Don’t forget showing up… it’s close at the end of the day.” 

She believes that dressing with purpose and intention not only affects personal confidence but also influences how you are received in professional and social spaces.

Her message is clear: showing up isn’t just about the clothes—it’s about making a conscious choice to be seen, heard, and valued. In business, in social settings, and in life, how you present yourself matters.

Read more reports from our International Women’s Day special event here